Viewers adore him for having the ability to make light of a serious situation. Actor, TV presenter, and cook Moshe Ndiki has returned for season three of Moja LOVE's "You Promised To Marry Me." The bubbly and vibrant host tells ZiMoja that returning to help a partner whose promise has not been fulfilled brings him joy. "I love my job. I love what I do. More than the fun aspect. I get to help people," Moshe says.

?LOVING THE NEW SEASON?

Moshe says viewers can expect more love and laughter. "I am excited to be back and helping hopefuls to finalise their marriage commitments. This season has been amazing to shoot. The people who write into the show are always so different in every episode. But the main this is a promise made is supposed to be a promise kept," he says. "We get to go all over South Africa, exploring these different relationships and helping couples solve sensitive issues within their relationships."?

LEARNING TO BE PATIENT 

Moshe says the show has taught him patience. "The working dynamics have been amazing. The structure and getting to know people's love stories and being able to help them is fulfilling. The show challenges me a lot and it has taught me to sympathise with people and to be patient. I learned to stay calm even in situations when I wish to scream and shout. You learn to find solutions and answers. Emotions can get flared up." Moshe goes on to say that he has also learned to be diplomatic when handling the cases, being able to listen and be the voice of reason. "I use my comedic side to make light of situations without mocking or offending anyone, so they are comfortable. Some of the participants tend to be nervous and that helps to ease them into it." Moshe has learned that he is a very patient and understanding person. "Noba kunzima (even when it is tough), find a moment of humour in emotional situations. But, at the end of the day, it is people's lives and their feelings," he adds.? In marriage, Moshe has learned that sometimes it is good to have expectations. "Everyone has expectations when getting into a marriage and any relationship, and there is nothing wrong. This is to be able to uphold the structure of the relationship.  Each person needs to come into their relationship with what they hope to achieve, their dreams, aspirations, and their vision."